When The Going Gets Tough — The Tough Keep Going
If youve been in a job search for more than a few weeks you may be experiencing the feelings of defeat and despair, not to mention the urge to give up. Its been a tough year, and then some, for those who have lost jobs for whatever reason. Interviewing with no second interviews or offers coming in begins to wear thin – very fast.
Here are some tips to keep your spirits up when youre feeling down during this process.
1. Dont give up.
You may have heard some of these stories before but they remain inspirational.
. Thomas Edison patented 1,093 inventions in his lifetime, but it took him 10,000 attempts to make an electric light bulb work.
. Walt Disneys Mickey Mouse series failed to become an instant hit, but he kept trying and in 1928 he added sound and made it an electrifying success.
. Milton Hershey failed several businesses before he became the Chocolate King and built Hershey town. He even went bankrupt in his first business venture.
(Source Milana Leshinsky – http://www.accpow.com)
These are great successes-after-failure stories that couldnt have happened if these people hadnt continued to pursue their dreams. Anyone can give up — that’s easy! The challenge is to pick yourself up after a failure and move forward. That is what will set you apart from the pack.
2. Accept the ups and downs
Its not unusual to have highs and lows during your job search. Some days you may even feel like youre on an emotional roller coaster. Everything looks hopeful one moment with a job prospect ahead, and then it changes to dark and dismal in the next moment when you receive a rejection. Accepting the fact that this is a stressful time you are going through and that a great deal of it is out of your control will help you put things into perspective.
3. Give yourself permission to fail.
It is very disappointing when you feel like you aced the interview and then wait for the promised call that never comes. Be realistic – you arent going to get a job offer after every interview. Think of it this way, you didnt marry every date you ever dated (at least most of us didnt), and you arent going to get a job offer after every interview. And maybe thats a good thing, at least some of the time. Remember, you are interviewing them as much as they are interviewing you.
4. Work on controlling stress
Stress becomes a problem when it begins to affect your lifestyle and health. Are you waking up in the middle of
the night or skipping meals because you are feeling really down or upset? You may need to talk to someone who is a professional to get some advice about relaxation techniques. Park and Recreation departments in most cities offer relaxation courses of some kind — yoga, pilates, aerobics, or stress control exercises — for a nominal fee, that could assist you in getting back on balance.
5. Continue to get out there
Study after study published continues to indicate that networking is still the number one way to land a job. Take advantage of every opportunity to be with groups of people. This encompasses everything from your childs soccer game to a Chamber of Commerce event. Informal networking can happen at any moment and when you least expect it. An example is of a man waiting for a bus. He struck up a conversation with another man also waiting for the bus and ended up getting a job lead and an eventual offer. No one can predict when an opportunity might come your way.
6. Prepare yourself
Preparing ahead of the interview will give you a definite advantage. What this means is getting focused about what you want the interviewer to know about you. You are presenting a picture of you with words. It is important to identify what makes you unique and what added value you can bring to the position. Reading through the job posting you are applying for and getting a sense of what it will take to do this job will help you look at the process from interviewers point of view. You want to let the interviewer know that you are the solution to the problem, and the best person for the job.
7. Keep in mind – you are not alone
Remember, it is an extremely tight job market and that for every job opening there are four or five equally qualified candidates standing in line behind you. It is essential that you are prepared, focused, and able to tell the interviewer what makes you unique and why you are the best person for the job.
Keeping upbeat is a part of your job right now. When you begin to give into the dark side you will project that to others. You want to stay as upbeat as possible, particularly while interviewing. Bringing confidence and energy to the interview are the two most important ingredients to connecting with the interviewer.
Carole Martin is a celebrated author, trainer, and an interview coach. Her books, *Interview Fitness Training Workbook* and *Boost Your Interview IQ* (McGraw Hill) have sold thousands of copies world-wide. http://www.InterviewCoach.com
Medicinal Treatments for Balding Men
The most commonly used drugs that are available to treat baldingare Minoxidil and Finasteride. Unlike Minoxidil, which is atopical product, Finasteride is an orally taken prescriptiondrug. It Is to be taken once daily. Both medications have beenstudied extensively. Theyre most successful at promoting
Its quite evident that hair plays an important role in apersons self image. After all, men are constantly bombardedwith ads that portray male sexiness. These ads employ youngmuscular male models with full heads of hair. But men are notalone! Women too, experience these internal struggles. Much likea woman is supposed to look stick thin and youthful, a man issupposed to look a certain way: strong and virile.
Those who want to play up to the image that theyre supposedto look like-can turn the page of their magazine and findanother advertisement. Ah, the solution-medication. Nowadaysthere are medications for everything! Weight loss, breastenhancement, skin
pigmentation, penis enlargement, and yes-hairloss and balding. Do these medications actually work?
Advertisements will promise you the moon AND a money backguarantee. They may even tell you that you have nothing to lose!Unfortunately, thats the farthest thing from the truth. Many ofthese medications rely on steroids, which can promote acne,irritability, insomnia, skin rashes, and…balding and hairloss. Imagine that? A hair loss product which has the sideeffect of balding. It happens!
In addition, a product which declares its ingredients “allnatural” hardly ever lists the exact contents and theirmeasurements on the bottles label. Products like or similarto Minoxidil and Finasteride are usually derived from companiesthat like to ride on the coat tails of others. If youre willingto give it a shot, do your homework and research the company andfind testimonials from other men like yourself. Why waste yourmoney and time trying product after product? Never purchase aproduct on a whim. Blind purchases often leave bald menvictimized. Contact the owner of the site who manufactures theproduct and ask directly. Inhairit offers an all naturalsolution to hair loss with minimal side effects.
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Coping With Stress, Its Effects On Your Skin And Health, And Turning Back The Clock
Stress comes in many forms, workplace stress, family stress, grief over loss of a loved one, etc… Some can be avoided, but as we know, many cannot. Some people handle stress better than others, and some even thrive onit.Regardless, stress takes its toll.
Stress has been proven to rid your body of many essential vitamins and minerals. Particularly vitamins C, E, and B. This leads to lethargy, lower focussed mental activities (clinically stress causes more erratic brain activity and a reduction in short term and long term memory), drying out and aging of the skin (in some), and in others a increase in the sebaceous gland activity – which usually brings postules, acne, and rosacea – which all bring more stress as we then become more entangled in how others view our physical appearance.
We cannot stop all stress, but we can take steps to stop or limit its toll on our skin and body. Take a full vitamin suplament every day. Eat a well balanced diet – especially fish meat like salmon (high in omega 3s which is proven to increase brain function and cellular activity, but it also is proven to reduce the aging process of the skin and make cuts and bruises heal faster). Eat more raw fruits and vegetables – atleast 5 servings per day – you will see a notable difference in 4-6 weeks and you will feel better (along with better colon health.
Exercise more often. Aerobic exercise has been proven to release powerful hormones that actually counteract the harmful chemicals and results of stress as it will also improve your bodys
abilities to cope with oxidants.
I cant say enough about meditation and prayer. Study after study have proven a reduction in every skin and body malody even cancer symptoms from people that pray and meditate daily. Take 20 minutes every day and do this you will also live longer.
The latest rage is skin peels for a quick fix. Skin peels will slough off the top layers of skin and reveal fresher, cleaner skin. The most effective are TCA peels and phenol peels (phenol peels are dangerous and should only be performed by a licensed plastic surgeon). TCA, trichloroacetic acid, is a medium depth skin peel that works on the most skin ailments – aging skin, sun damage, even has been proven to treat and cure acne. No other skin peel can safely do all that a TCA peel can.
So there you have it – clear, younger skin in 500 words. Great advice to follow and dont forget to always run anything new by your doctor. They are licensed for a reason and know whats best for you. by your doctor. They are licensed for a reason and know whats best for you.
About The Author
David Maillie is a chemist with over 12 years experience in biochemical research and clynical analysis. He is an alumni of Cornell University and specializes in biochemical synthesis for public, private, and governmental interests. He can be reached at M.D. Wholesale: http://www.bestskinpeel.com or by visiting or http://www.mdwholesale.com.
Medical Spa Menu Offers Hope for Long-Term Blemishes
A medical spa menu usually covers a range of services and treatments from pure cosmetic to deeper corrective treatments.
A basic medical spa menu may include:
- Face Treatments
- Body Treatments
- Corrective Skin Care
- Photorejuvenation
- Laser Hair Removal
- BOTOX Cosmetic
- Restylane
- Collagen
- Microdermabrasion
- Vein Treatments
- Cellulite Therapy
- Corrective Peels
Beyond that, some menus include exotic treatments auriculotherapy, herbal medicine, tui na massage and acupuncture, as well as the usual pampering treatments that go down so well.
As an illustration, here is a summary of the more common offerings:
Corrective Face Treatments
Non-surgical corrective facial treatments are designed to reduce common skin problems associated with aging skin, renew and rejuvenate the skin, balance the overall hue/tone of the skin and address mild acne issues.
Energetic Spa Facials
Energetic Spa Facials are a holistic way of caring for your skin and work effectively to nourish and maintain overall skin health and well being.
Photorejuvenation
Intense Pulsed Light technology corrects or improves a
variety of skin conditions, such as rosacea, broken capillaries, unsightly veins, reddened scars and photoaging due to sun damage. The approach is gradual, with noticeable results achieved over several sessions. Treatment hs been compared to the sensation of a small rubber band gently snapping against the skin.
Botox
Wrinkles are caused by the contractions of underlying facial muscles every time you smile, laugh, or frown. Botox partially blocks the nerve impulses to them, causing the muscles to relax. After the solution takes effect, the overlying skin is smooth and unwrinkled while the untreated facial muscles still function normally.
Cellulite Therapy
This is a non-surgical treatment for cellulite, a little like massage. The treatment increases local circulation to tissue temporarily reducing the appearance of cellulite. This procedure is also used after body liposuction to the smooth the skin. A complete course of treatments generally involves two sessions per week for seven to nine weeks.
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Jenny Drake has a healthy interest in living life to the full. Her advice and writings are available for free download at Beauty Fitness Lifestyles.
Car Rental Tips and Advice
Lowest Rates Vs. A Good Bargain
Many people approach Car Rental as a lowest-price-possiblecontest rather than to concentrate on the value of the deal theyeventually would get, in terms of what type of car, whatsincluded (air conditioning, automatic gear shift etc) as wellas what type of service they are buying.
The thing is, Car Rental market is very competitive one andrates differences for comparable quality and service arerelatively small, sometimes as small as $10 to $20. These minuetprice differences are going to vanish in the wind when youconsider the long lines and lost time at the cheapest rentercounter, drop charges for remote destinations, late returnfines, and gasoline inflated rates as well as other servicecharges you didnt think about when you shopped for the “bestdeal”.
Dont get us wrong, we dont like to pay higher prices more thanyou do. We do recommend to shop around and check the variousrates available, especially when its so easy to do it via theInternet at comparison sites.
All we say here you need to consider other things beside theprice and when you compare please make sure you compare applesto apples and not apples to pears.
Things to consider when ordering a rented a car
Who is using the car, are you by yourself on a business trip oryou are traveling with the whole family? How much luggage areyou going to have, does the car you are thinking about is bigenough to have you all plus all your hand luggage and bigsuitcases? If not, consider to change to a mini van or a carwith extra large trunk.
Do you need an Infant seat or a child booster? make sure it ismentioned clearly with your order, usually there is a shortageof these seats and they are provided for extra charge. Check thestate laws for where you are traveling.A new law in Denver forinstance, requires Booster Seats for all 4 and 5 year olds whoare not 55 inches tall.
Do you actually need the car in the town or city at the firstfew days? If not, consider to take a taxi, a bus, a train or thehotel shuttle into the city and when its time for you to go outof town and travel around, then, rent the car from the citylocation and by that save up to 15% on Air-Port charges as wellas on city parking fees.
Are you going to a very warm and humid destination? If yes, itsrecommended to order a car with air conditioning, usually theprice difference is negligible, the problem is that its notavailable in all destinations like in some European countries.
Most major rental car companies allow for unlimited mileage inthe same state, but its a good idea to check their policybefore confirming. Many smaller local independent companiescharge mileage after 100-200 free miles per day.
As mentioned before price is not the only factor to considerwhen choosing a car rental company. If you choose a very small,no-name company, dont expect them to provide you with serviceacross all nation or continent, what would you do if the car isneeded to be replaced or serviced for some reason?
Frequent or Preferred Renter Programs and affiliations
Frequent renter programs, Like airlines and hotels, majorcar rental companies track their customers rental histories andoffer preferential service to loyal customers. Most of the majorcompanies offer frequent renter programs that are similar toairline frequent-flyer programs and hotel frequent-guestprograms.
Preferred renter clubs, Most major car rental companiesalso offer preferred renter programs or clubs (one example isthe Hertz #1 Club). When you belong to one of these clubs, youget preferential treatment, including automatic upgrades whenthose cars are available. You can join these programs at anytime, even if you are a first-time renter with that company.While basic-level club memberships are often free, higher-levelmemberships (as in the Hertz #1 Gold Club, which allows you tobypass the rental counter) generally come with a price tag. Whatmost people dont realize is that its often possible to avoidthe membership fee by simply writing or calling your car rentalcompany and asking them to waive it. They will do it because thecar rental industry is very competitive, and they want yourbusiness
If youre still faced with a steep rate, try getting discountsbased on your affiliations with organizations like AARP, AAA orothers. These discounts are usually not great, but they arebetter than nothing.
In addition, always check for corporate rates if applicable toyour situation.
Car Rental Insurance
Some of the Insurance terms seem to be confusing, lets try toclear them out first.
CDW – Collision Damage Waiver.
LDW – Loss Damage Waiver.
PDW – Physical Damage Waiver.
PAI – Personal Accident Insurance.
PEC – Personal Effects Coverage.
ALI – Additional Liability Insurance.
Many of the Credit Cards have most of these coverage, thereforeits not mandatory to purchase excessive coverage. Its betterto check this issue with
your travel agent, insurance agent andyour credit card company a head of time. Some Car rentalcompanies require that you show proof of insurance.
Also be aware that your personal insurance probably doesntapply to your rental car when traveling overseas. All this issomewhat complicated and at times confusing because there are noindustry standards for terminology and policies vary bylocations.
Important things to check and do before leaving theAir-Port
After a long flight and the waiting in lines for your luggageand afterwards for your keys at the car rental counter, it isunderstandable you just want to take the rented car and driveaway to your hotel, but wait! Here is a list of things you mustcheck first.
Start by making a careful check around the car, look for anysmall dents or scratches, in case you find some, dont be lazy,go back to the office and ask a representative of the rentalcompany to write down all of these dents, ask for a copy of thatreport. Other wise you might be responsible for damages youdidnt perform.
Open the trunk, make sure you have a spare tire, a jack and setof tools, there is noting more irritating than to find out inthe middle of nowhere that you dont have a jack when you needto replace a flat tire.
Many car companies will provide you with an extra key if you askfor one. This can come in handy for some of us who are absentminded.
It is recommended to spend some time to get acquainted with thecars features and switches, make sure you know where the lightsswitches are, how to operate the windshield wipers, the airconditioner and even set your favorite radio stations as well asset your side mirrors. It might be quiet frustrating to fightwith the new switches while driving, when all of a sudden itstarts raining.
Make sure you have a map and its better to spend few moreminutes and plan your driving route.
Last but certainly not least, If you have a lot of luggage,dont park the car in the parking lot and go for lunch, in manycountries, this is an easy target for the thieves, Its betterto buy some sandwiches and beverages in the air-port, or stopsomewhere along the way for refreshing but never leave the carunattended.
In case you are involved in a Car Accident
These are the most important pieces of information to collectfrom the involved parties: full name, mailing address, telephonenumber, insurance details, and drivers license number.
Also try to get the names and contact information of anyone whowitnessed the accident. Make a note of the vehicles make,color, brand and license plate number.
Try to pinpoint the exact time and location of the accident. Ifthe police get involved, ensure that you receive a copy of theirreport. Dont forget to inform your insurance agent immediatelyand notify the car rental company. They will let you know abouttheir accident procedure.
If you purchased insurance through the car rental company, theywill have to make the claim. If there is damage to the rentalcar, there will be much paper work to complete
Make sure any involved parties are ok. Any injuries should betaken care of ASAP.
Call the police and/or ambulance (if necessary), and then callthe car rental agency. Be as cooperative as possible. The carrental agency will have its own policies regarding accidents.
Exchange information with the affected parties. Try to recordeverything on the scene. Your notes should include details ofthe accident, identification of the autos and people involved,and the names and badge numbers of all emergency personnel.
Take pictures if possible. If you are on vacation, you willprobably have a camera handy already.
File an accident report with the police, and report the claim toyour own credit card company or insurance company.
When returning the Car
Make all necessary arrangements to return the car on time, thatincludes looking the location in the map especially if youreturn the car in a foreign city.
Late return charges are high and arbitrary, secondly, if you arelate, you probably wont have the time to fill the car withgasoline yourself and the rental company will charge youexorbitant inflated gasoline rates.
In case you return the car in a city location on Sunday, itmight be that the station will be deserted, it will let you invia automated gate, make sure to take the card and leave it overthe dashboard, this is your recorded time of arrival.
In addition, lock the car, take the keys plus your rentalcontract and insert them into the designated box.
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How to Become a Successful Dieter
7-tip Series: How to become a Successful Dieter!
What do thin people know that others do not? Here are the TOP 7 TIPS on how to “think” like a thin person, so that you can become one.
TIP #1: Stop Dieting!!
Or at least, stop calling whatever you’re doing a “diet.” Just the word “diet” alone is enough to make a person’s skin crawl.
Why? Because so many of us have tried special diets before only to lose control due to the severe restrictions by which these diets force us to live.
If we have been lucky enough to lose weight on any of these so-called diets, then statistically MOST of us have gained the weight back,
many of us with an extra pound or two for good measure (no pun intended).
So what’s happening? It’s all in our minds. Diets have bad reps, and your mind is very skeptical of dieting.
If you’ve failed at a “diet” before, you will fail at a “diet” again. So think of healthy weight loss as a lifestyle change- with specific dietary changes, but no outright restrictions. You’ll be happier, and slimmer, in the long run.
TIP #2: Eat Your Favorite Foods
Was that a mis-print? Nope.
I mean it when I say “eat your favorite foods”. Of course, eating does not imply gorging oneself on chips and donuts, but there is nothing wrong with these food items as long as you eat them only in moderation.
But what does moderation mean, anyway? If you listen to your body, it will tell you when it has had enough.
If you tend to over-stuff yourself, then you are probably eating too much!
But there’s nothing wrong with an Oreo Cookie or a handful of Tostado Chips every once in a while.
The only problem is the quantity in which we consume these so-called “bad” foods.
Of course, there are healthier alternatives to most snack foods, but if you’re going to crave something sweet or salty – EAT IT.
Just watch how much you’re eating and stop after one serving size.
Take what you are going to eat, and then put the bag away.
Then drink a glass of water, or a cup of peppermint tea.
And if you have trouble listening to your body at first, start reading the labels in order to understand how much is enough.
Mmmmmm.. Chocolate…
TIP #3: Listen to Your Body
Have you ever tried to talk yourself out of eating something sweet or salty, only to wait a few moments and end up eating it anyway?
Your conversation probably went something like this:
“Joe, you really shouldn’t eat that piece of pie. You had a piece yesterday, and you had ice cream on it, too. Don’t eat it – you’ll regret it.”
“Yeah, you know I did have that pie last night. I’ll wait and eat the rest of it tomorrow.”
“But maybe it will be bad by tomorrow. You shouldn’t waste that pie. It was so GOOD!”
“Hmmm. Maybe I’ll just have a tiny piece and save the rest for tomorrow. How would that be?”
“Well, I guess a little piece won’t hurt.”
And the pie is on the plate with your fork in your mouth before you can say, “A la mode.”
Here’s something to think about: Instead of trying to rationalize with your mind as to why you should or should not have that piece of pie,
try talking with your BODY about it.
This is a new concept to most people, but it really works. Ask your body what it needs.
Remember, food is fuel for your body. Your body knows if it needs proteins, fats, or carbohydrates.
Rarely will your body ask for pie. It is your mind that wants the pie.
But a little pie every now and again won’t hurt anything either.
Remember – Everything in moderation. The key here is to make healthier choices MORE OFTEN.
Learn to tell the difference and to listen to your body, and you will be on your way to a slimmer you in no time.
TIP #4: Move!!!
What do you mean “move”??!!?
What do you think of when I say the word “exercise?” I know what I think about. I think of sneakers and shorts and beads of sweat running down my face as I watch the aerobics instructor lead me through a complicated routine that I really couldn’t follow if my life depended on it. Well, I used to be able to follow those routines, but somewhere along the way, I got turned around and I can’t seem to follow their instructions anymore.
Exercise is often equated to “hard work.” And sometimes I just don’t feel like exercising. Can any of you relate?
Maybe “exercise” doesn’t create those feelings for you. If so – Great! Keep exercising!
But what about the word, “move?” Movement doesn’t have the same threatening connotations attached to it that many people feel with the word “exercise.” I have started a “movement program” now instead of an exercise program. What’s the difference? My movement program doesn’t require a background in gymnastics to perform, and I “move” as often as I can throughout the day. Movement has become a part of my daily routine, rather than a one-hour trip to the gym that I have to do 5 days per week (that doesn’t mean I never go to the gym. I still do! But now I go because I want to, not because I “have” to).
Movement means taking the stairs, walking through the parking lot, dancing in my living room,
playing a game of pick-up basketball, stretching, sitting on my Ball (you know those big, colorful balls you see at the gym or on TV?) so that my lower back is always working and I work on my posture throughout the day.
You see, movement is easy. And it can be fun, too.
Wouldn’t you like to go take the dogs for a walk in the park, and feed the ducks while you’re there? Or to go dancing with some friends? Or maybe you enjoy gardening or cleaning (okay, there have got to be SOME people who enjoy cleaning!)
Get off the couch and enjoy your life. MOVE every day.
TIP #5: Focus on the Progress, not on the Gap
So often when working with people who are trying to lose weight, I notice that many of them focus on how far away
they are from their goal, rather than acknowledging the progress they are making.
In losing her first two pounds on a program, one of my clients said, “Only two pounds! I still have 23 more to go!”
What kind of message do you think that sends to your subconscious mind?
Instead of focusing on the 23 pounds (or whatever it is for you) that you have NOT lost yet,
recognize and acknowledge yourself for the progress you HAVE made.
This will encourage and motivate you to continue on your weight loss path.
Sometimes it’s not easy, which is why a supportive environment, or a coach, can be a huge benefit in your success.
In any case, acknowledge yourself as often as you can.
And focus on your success!
TIP #6: Attract Your Perfect Body
Everything, everything, everything in our lives is a reflection of the vibration we are giving off to the universe.
If you want a healthy body, you can attract it, by becoming aware of the thoughts, feelings and emotions that are prevalent in your thinking about your weight. Everything in the universe is made up of energy (ask a Physicist), and this includes our emotions. If you emit positive emotions, you will attract positive results.
If you emit negative emotions, you will attract exactly what you say you don’t want in your life.
The Law of Attraction is a complex, yet very simple principle that has been clearly explained by Michael Losier in his book, “The Law of Attraction”.
Successful dieters understand that their thoughts and feelings lead to their results (your inner world creates your outer world).
TIP #7: Play
What does playing have to do with dieting? Everything!
If you perceive something to be hard, tedious, boring or no fun, your subconscious mind will do whatever it takes to take you out of the game.
But have you ever noticed that when you do something fun – something you love – the energy of that experience lasts for hours,
if not days, after the experience itself has ended?
That’s because you have raised your vibrational energy, and when you are in a higher vibrational state, life FLOWS with ease.
The same thing will happen when you “play” with your food! Okay, I know your mother always told you not to. But who’s watching?
When you take care of the part of you that wants to play, you will naturally be more loving towards yourself – and that includes in the food and exercise area of your life, too! So, make a Mickey Mouse in your pancakes. Go for a bike ride in the park, or spend an evening dancing! Whatever you do, PLAY!
Lighten up! Play is a critical factor in your success as a dieter and your overall life fulfillment, too.
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Medical question #2. Ovarian cysts. Part2
Polycystic ovarian syndrome is a little bit different animal actually. Here is some genetic predisposition.
Classically: an overweight young female presents with oligomenorrhea or amenorrhea, anovulation, acne, hirsutism, and or infertility.
What is what? Poly = many. Many, many, many men.
So PCOS means bunch of those bubbles in the ovaries. The follicles did not rupture on time, as they should. Oligo means a little. Meno is derived from menses. Rrhea means flow in Latin
So olygomenorrhea = flowing a little bit (less than it should).
A- is a prefix that means “No”. So, amenorrhea = no flow at all.
Hirsutism. I dont remember where it came from, but means hairy or hairiness. Actually excessive hairiness.
Causes of PCOD or PCOS (disease or syndrome) are obesity, genetic predisposition and some other causes of Luteinizing hormone (LH) excess.
There is a self-amplifying cycle:
LH stimulates theca lutein cells. Theca means sort of capsule. Doesnt really matter, just an anatomical term.
Those cells are special. They produce androstendione and testosterone. Androstendione and testosterone are actually male hormones. You know, bodybuilders use these hormones to get muscle bulk. You probably heard about those hormones. Sport doping uses testosterone.
So, athletes build their muscles and trash their liver.
Rumors say that a famous Hollywood actor used the hormones. Later he got liver transplant.
Though he always denied the use.
Anyway, female body converts androstendione into estrone (a weak estrogen). Fat cells do this. Estrone is a female hormone already.
Basically any body produces androgens (andros = man) and estrogens (female hormones). Just the proportion of those hormones makes us male or female.
The cycle happens in normal person as well.
The estrone stimulates pituitary secretion of LH.
Pituitary is a small gland in you brain. Pea Size.
Its small, but it sooooo powerful.
Pituitary has another name – hypophysis. Hypo means down, phys means growth, so this gland is growing from below the rest of the brain. Pituitary gets bunch of connections from hypothalamus.
Hypothalamus means “below thalamus”.
These two areas of brain regulate almost all the hormone production in organism.
Higher levels in brain hierarchy regulate them.
Hypophysis gets a command. Then it produces some intermediate messengers and hormones.
The hormones go into blood and control whole body.
Hormones are like orders, like messages to the rest of the body.
Brain may give quick orders: Signals go through the nerves. It is like a phone order or cablegram.
Brain also regulates organism through the hormones. This is like a mail order.
Sort of if the brain sends letters by regular mail. The hypophysis is the Post Office in this case.
PCOS kicks in when a woman is obese. There are more fat cells to convert
androstendione to estrone. Estrone has such effect that it stimulates pituitary secretion of LH.
LH in its turn goes back to those theca lutein cells we discussed and turns them on again, to produce more androstendione, which is again converted into estrone.
Self-amplifying cycle
In addition, that increased level of testosterone causes the hirsutism (she becomes hairy like a male) and acne in female.
In a normal person this cycle is probably designed to support the development of fetus.
Estrogen helps placenta to grow. Placenta supports fetal growth.
However, in a person with PCOD the cycle is going out of normal control. In this case LH causes growth of the cysts in the ovaries.
Why?
Because the corpus luteum cyst is partially made by overgrowth of those theca lutein cells. LH stimulates theca lutein cells.
Also, women with PCOS have intolerance to glucose (sugar) and resistance to insulin.
It means there is a lot of insulin (hormone that helps to utilize glucose mainly).
However excessive insulin does not work. Either receptors to insulin do not work or something else, but the glucose is not utilized. Hence, energy inside the cells drops. Hence, a big pile of other problems mounts. As if it is Diabetes Mellitus. Diabetes is a different topic of discussion. For us, it is worthwhile to mention that people with diabetes are very much prone to any infection.
PCOS causes acanthosis nigricans also. Acantocytes are special skin cells.
Nigricans means
black in Latin. That thing looks like thickened pigmented skin. When you touch it, it feels like velvet. Usually it happens in axilla, neck, below breast, in inner thigh and vulva. So, mostly all those places where skin folds.
The treatment for PCOS includes different medications: oral contraceptives, progesterone,
glucocorticoids, ketoconazole, spironolactone, cyproterone, flutamide, cimetidine, finasteride, ovarian wedge resection, laparascopic electoracutery, mechanical hair removal, etc.
All methods break the cycle of overproduction. The medications are either hormones themself or hormone-like substances that occupy receptor site and prevent regular hormone to work.
The medications act on different levels. Normal hormones have very complicated regulation. There are loops and feedbacks in the pathways.
To suppress a hormone production or action, you give similar hormone or another hormone or non-hormone at all, that goes to the feedback loop and breaks it and so on. Its really long separate discussion.
Basically, you either decrease hormone production or shift ratio toward female hormones.
Another way, the best probably, is weight loss. No fat cells – no conversion of andrgoens etc. You can make conclusions yourself.
Its the first line of treatment.
For a simple follicular ovarian cyst (not PCOS) doctor rules out ectopic pregnancy. Then he may send patient home and repeat pelvic exam in 6-8 weeks. Especially, if the cyst was small, less than five cm in diameter.
For larger cysts, doctor would order pelvic ultrasound.
Most follicular cyst will resolve on their own in six to eight weeks. Though, a physician may give oral contraceptives. Again, this suppresses stimulation of cyst by hormones from the hypophysis. The hormones are named gonadotropins.
If the cyst is still there after 6-8 weeks, a suspicion arises that the cyst maybe malignant. Then doctor orders other studies. CT scan. Physician may perform surgical procedures also. He looks what is this cyst really.
Corpus luteum cyst is usually not treated. However, oral contraceptives may be used.
Rupture of any kind of those cysts leads to another story. Acute pain, bleeding into peritoneum.
Sometime bleeding is very severe and is true emergency. You need also to distinguish other process in the abdomen. For example, appendicitis looks similar. You can treat mild case of non-complicated cyst rupture with just observation. Appendicitis almost always requires surgery.
There are many other problems arise. Surgeon scratches his head: whats going on? Is this this or is this that? Here is the CT scan gives big advantage.
Now, going back to the question of Ms. L.
If the cyst was infected, I dont see a reason why a ruptured cyst wouldnt become infected.
Cyst content is very nutrient-rich. Remember? All those cells and their products are dedicated to feeding the oocyte (future baby). Should be very tasty for any bacteria.
Rupture may cause significant bleeding as well. This blood is also different from the blood in your vessels.
This blood is sitting in the pelvis, not moving, quickly clotting. Clotting prevents entry of white blood cells. “No flow” prevents entry of antibodies. Absence of flow prevents entry of other protective chemicals (complement etc).
So, it is very nutrient-rich media for bacteria growth.
They can go wild. Why not?
If a female had another pelvic infection before, that infection can flare up. In a normal person peritoneal cavity should be sterile. However, any gynecological or gastrointestinal infection may supply bacteria. Now, mix these bacteria with the content of the leaking cyst. It just destined to become infected.
Actually Ms. L later answered her own question in another e-mail. She had cysts multiple times and they became infected several times.
So, to answer the question:
Will the ruptured cyst become infected? Not necessarily. Rather not. Can it become infected?
Yes.
About the Author
Aleksandr Kavokin MD/PhD, Phila
http://www.kavokin.com
http://www.appendicitis.uni.cc/
Aleksandr Kavokin, MD1994 Russia,PhD1997 Russia – Immunology and Allergy, postdoc at Cancer Center at Med U of South Carolina, postdoc at Yale – Cardiology, Molecular Medicine. http://www.geocities.com/aging_rejuvenation/ http://www.appendicitis.uni.cc/ http://www.geocities.com/appendicitis_disease/
Coping with stress and turning back the hands of time.
Stress comes in many forms, workplace stress, family stress,grief over loss of a loved one, etc… Some can be avoided, butas we know, many cannot. Some people handle stress better thanothers, and some even thrive onit.Regardless, stress takes itstoll.
Stress has been proven to rid your body of many essentialvitamins and minerals. Particularly vitamins C, E, and B. Thisleads to lethargy, lower focussed mental activities (clinicallystress causes more erratic brain activity and a reduction inshort term and long term memory), drying out and aging of theskin (in some), and in others a increase in the sebaceous glandactivity – which usually brings postules, acne, and rosacea -which all bring more stress as we then become more entangled inhow others view our physical appearance.
We cannot stop all stress, but we can take steps to stop orlimit its toll on our skin and body. Take a full vitaminsuplament every day. Eat a well balanced diet – especially fishmeat like salmon (high in omega 3s which is proven to increasebrain function and cellular activity, but it also is proven toreduce the aging process of the skin and make cuts and bruisesheal faster). Eat more raw fruits and vegetables – atleast 5servings per day – you will see a notable difference in 4-6weeks and you will feel better (along with better colon health).Exercise more often. Aerobic exercise has been proven to releasepowerful hormones that actually counteract
the harmful chemicalsand results of stress as it will also improve your bodysabilities to cope with oxidants.
I cant say enough about meditation and prayer. Study afterstudy have proven a reduction in every skin and body malody evencancer symptoms from people that pray and meditate daily. Take20 minutes every day and do this you will also live longer.
The latest rage is skin peels for a quick fix. Skin peels willslough off the top layers of skin and reveal fresher, cleanerskin. The most effective are TCA peels and phenol peels (phenolpeels are dangerous and should only be performed by a licensedplastic surgeon). TCA, trichloroacetic acid, is a medium depthskin peel that works on the most skin ailments – aging skin, sundamage, even has been proven to treat and cure acne. No otherskin peel can safely do all that a TCA peel can.
So there you have it – clear, younger skin in 500 words. Greatadvice to follow and dont forget to always run anything new byyour doctor. They are licensed for a reason and know whats bestfor you.
About the author:
David Maillie is a chemist with over 12 years experience inbiochemical research and clynical analysis. He is an alumni ofCornell University and specializes in biochemical synthesis forpublic, private, and governmental interests. He can be reachedat M.D. Wholesale: http://www.bestskinpeel.com or by visiting orhttp://www.mdwholesale.com.
Masturbate and Feel Good
“Masturbation … is not approved of the Lord nor this church, regardless of what may be said by those whose norms are lower”, President Kimball of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (1981)
“Every sperm is sacred. Every sperm is great. If a sperm is wasted, God gets quite irate.” Monty Pythons The Meaning of Life.
A quote often used by various churches in an effort to contain illicit acts amongst its people. Every sermon on masturbation would quote it, atleast all the sermons I have heard. Under the circumstances, is it difficult to imagine masturbation as one of the biggest taboos in our society? Even today? Scientific education has done a little to change it. Does that mean men and women dont masturbate? Certainly not. 99% of men and 70% of women masturbate according to various studies. The problem lies in the acceptance of the fact that you masturbate. Let me tell you a story… a story about you.
One night you were sitting alone in your appartment eating pizza. You decided to check out some new sites on the net while you eat. So you log on to your ISP and start surfing. Inadverantely, you come across some piece of pornography(yes, the net is quite full of it!) Looking at those erotic (and often downright nasty photos) you feel a tingling between your legs. One thing leads to another and you end up spoiling your underpants. Now let me tell you another story.
One night you were sitting alone in a bar drinking beer. And then a most gorgeous person enters the bar. The person that causes tingling between your legs just looking at him or her. You decide that you cant let go of this oppurtunity to get to know this wonderful creation of god. So you move towards this person and start small talk. One thing leads to another and you end up in your appartment.
Whether you are a woman or a man, the next morning you wouldnt be jumping with joy in the first case. When you go out in the evening to meet your friends, you would not tell them about the hot site you found and how you jerked off to it. Nevertheless, in the second case, you would be telling anyone who cared to listen how you had the most wonderful experience of your life last night. Why? Well, maybe because self pleasure is, well, nothing special. You can do it anytime you want. Ofcourse seducing the person of your dreams is quite an accomplishment. No wonder you need an audience. But what if you have a friend like me. A friend who is crazy enough to ask you did you wank off yesterday night? Was it good? What would you do then? Would you tell your friend about the hot site and your experience? Would you simply say, “Yeah! It was great! What about you?” Or would you pretend nothing had happened and lie… something like you were somewhere else yesterday night, or maybe lead your friend to believe you got lucky with someone?
I am guessing you would do the latter. Most certainly you wont acknowledge the act of masturbation. Rather you would evade the question and change the topic. And when your friend tells you about a hot conquest the same night, you would wish you had a bowl of water in which you could drown. Shame and guilt would come over you and you would change the topic in double quick time. Are you crazy? Noway! You are just one of the majority. And quite a majority at that! Way more majority that what George Bush had in the last elections! The reason – social conditioning!
You are just like the boy who ran out of the cinema hall that was screening an adult film (mind you, he had no business of being there in the first place! But all the cinemas care about is the sale of their tickets!) Later in the day, the friend who had been at the movies with him, caught up with him and asked, “Why in the hells name did you run out?” The boy answered, “My mom said that if I watched a woman getting naked I would turn to stone. And damn you Harry, a part of me was already turning into stone!”
Unluckily, the social conditioning is wrong. It is as wrong as the social condition in 18-19th century India, where widows were forced to burn alive with their husbands. As wrong as the church was in burning Galileo for implying the Earth was not the centre of the universe. Lily Tomlin put it best, “We have reasons to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation!” If god didnt want us to masturbate, maybe we would still be walking like dogs and horses!
The social conditioning is a result of numerous myths, lies and scams perperated by numerous individuals for personal benefit. Unfortunately, this conditioning is like a hard nut, very tough to crack. However, with effort and chanelising your energies, you can break it. Remember, the nuts that crack the hardest, are often the ones that taste the best! You must be wondering, how the hell does it matter if you feel guilty about masturbation. Why should you spend time breaking this casing?
Certain psychologists believe that guilt conscious, whether sexual guilt or in any other form, is the most destructive element for your mental health. Others believe it is one of the most destructive. But the greatest effect of guilt conscious in my experience has been a lack of confidence in self. Now you are an intelligent reader. I dont need to explain you the importance of self confidence. Be it your career, relationships or any other aspect of life, lack of confidence can bring your downfall. Now I am not implying that should you start to feel more comfortable about masturbation, you would succeed in all aspects of life. But it would be a nice step to take. An useless guilt that should, and can be eradicated from your mind. Remember, an ocean is made of small droplets of water. Get rid of a drop at a time and in due time, the ocean would be empty! Ofcourse it would take several millenia! Luckily, you dont have an ocean full of guily! Just some naggings here and there!
The first step towards eradication of this guilt is knowledge. There are thousands of myths around masturbation. Most of them perperated by religion, unfortunately. But some perperated by scam runners. Lets take a look at the most important ones.
1. Masturbation is against the will of god.
Bullshit. At one point the church considered anyone who was overtly passionate to his wife an adultrater. Follow that teaching and your wife would be committing adultery! Several clergymen have
gone on record to say that not only the churchs teachings about sexuality were unrelated to the scriptures, but that they caused more harm than good amongst people. Besides, nowhere in the religious teachings of any major religions is masturbation considered wrong.
2. Masturbation will cause impotency.
Most males and even some females seem to think so. Wrong again. Lets tackle the males first. It is understandable that seeing their sperm flow out of their body, they think it may end sometime. Well, it will end one day… maybe when you are 100 years old. But until then dont worry. Your sperm bank is quite unlike Standard Chartered. You have unlimited credit here! Sperm is a completely renewable resource, renewable on an hourly basis! For women, well, there is no basis in the theory. Probably perperated by old ladies who never had an orgasm in their entire life!
3. Masturbation causes acnes, hair loss, skin diseases.
This one is my favorite. Mainly because it is one of the better scams of all times! Your social conditioning would have you believe that masturbation is bad for your health. But bad how? No one would give you a satisfying answer! Now some scam artists saw this as an good oppurtunity to sell their products like hair growth lotions, etc. Since most people start masturbating during their teens, (the times of acne and other skin problems), they would have you believe that this is caused by masturbation! Unluckily for them, this is as untrue as the sun rising from the west! Masturbation has no physical side effects!
4. Masturbating will make you thin and skinny!
Then there would be no need for diet pills and fitness regimes my friend! And most certainly 70% of USA wouldnt be overweight!
5. Only Kids masturbate!
Why would you say that? I wonder! Well quite untrue, most adults masturbate… yup even after marriage!
6. Masturbation is for males.
And it is for 70% of the women too. Thats right, two thirds of all females masturbate!
7. Only losers masturbate!
Another of my favorites. Just goes to show just how much of a taboo is masturbation! First thing, 99% of males and 70% of females have masturbated atleast once in their lives. Now that is a hell of a lot of losers dont you think! Nothing more that I can add really… this is really the epitome of insecurity amongst people regarding self pleasure.
8. Masturbation is for homosexuals.
Wow. Where did that one originate! Someone must make a etymology of these myths, would make for an interesting read! Just as untrue as all these myths, masturbation and homosexuality have nothing in common. Some people masturbate to their fantasies of opposite sex, others to their fantasies of same sex. Thats it.
9. Masturbation will make you blind!
Others claim that masturbation is bad for your eyesights. However, their claims are unsupported by facts and medical advice. I suggest you talk to your general physician and he will explain you what a load of bull this is.
10. Masturbation changes the shape of your penis
Well, it does make it rock hard. But believe me, once you orgasm, the hardness is gone! So no. Masturbation has absolutely no effect on how your penis looks.
There are loads more of these myths circulating around the world. If you have a query about masturbation, ask me, I would happily lay your fears to rest. My email is advice@pornographytimes.com
Now lets move on in an attempt to get rid of your guilt. Clearly, all the reasons that made masturbation such a taboo are baseless. So why should you feel guilty about something that is normal and actually healthy? Healthy? Yes that too! This January, I recieved an email from a woman who had some major problems in her marriage. Due to her career and that of her husband, their sexual life was inexistant. Both held jobs in big MNCs and were frequently out of town. Sometimes, they would see each other once a month! Nevertheless, they were very much in love. Her problem was, that inspite of all their love, they were getting into petty fights with each other. The woman was even experiencing problems during work, getting angry for no apparent reasons, shouting on her team. Her temperament was a creation of the stress caused by extensive work and lack of pleasurable activities. Add to that sexual frustration.
My advice to her was twofold. First, I told her that she would have to slow down, and so should her husband. They must make time for their hobbies, maybe try and get in some physical exercise when they could. Most certainly, they needed to see more of each other. They should onsider talking off a couple of days and just be together. Second, while she was alone, she should consider fantasy therapy. Namely, reading erotic novels, watching erotic movies… exciting herself and eventually masturbating as regularly as she could. Three months later, I recieved a thank you letter from her. Apparently she had put my advice to practice (which is quite rare!) and it had actually helped. (Which is not so rare!)
How did masturbating help her? Because most of her problems arose from stress and lack of physical activities. And masturbation, like sex, is the perfect medicing. When you orgasm, your mind gets cleared of the regular day to day problems. Your body gets excited and the blood flow increases. Sometimes, you even sweat! A complete and perfect exercise for those with lack of time!
The next step in getting rid of your guilt is self belief. Something, no outsider can help you with. Here is what I would counsel. Read as many articles on the internet as you can relating to masturbation. Just so that you know that I am not bullshitting you. Any queries you have, dont be afraid to ask me or another sex advisor on any of the reputed websites. Remember, the first step is knowledge and the second step is belief. And knowledge leads to belief. Good Wanking!
Jessica Stumper is a columnist for The Pornography Times (http://www.pornographytimes.com/) .She is an experienced sexologists and runs her own sex advice column. She can be contacted at jessicastumper@pornographytimes.com
How to Avoid Becoming a Fitness Failure
When it comes to fitness, no one likes being a failure, yet more than half of new exercisers quit their program within the first six months. With a little help you can ensure youre not one of them. Give these ideas a try as you begin your exercise program for the new year.
Set goals
If you dont know where you are going, how will you know when you get there? Setting short-term and long-term goals may increase your chance of success. Your goals must give a clear picture of the end-point to work towards. Use the SMART model, your goal should be Specific, Measureable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-bound. Without these you’ll never know if you have achieved the goal. You can’t just say “lose weight or gain energy.” Instead say, “I will lose 10 pounds in 12 weeks by doing strength training 3 times a week and cardio 3 times a week.”
Go for variety
Whether you do a home workout or belong to a gym, build your routine on cross-training to keep things fresh and interesting, and keep yourself from developing an injury. Frequently vary the order of your exercises and mix in dumbbells, barbells, resistance tubing, machine or body weight exercises. Dont be afraid to take a class.
Track your progress
Write down your measurements and weight at the beginning of your program. Keep a workout log and use it. Seeing results is a great motivator. At least once a month, re-measure and review your log to see advances in your aerobic fitness, strength, flexibility and body composition.
Seek out support
A workout partner with similar goals and a positive attitude can make your workout more fun. knowing you are accountable to another person can be a great motivator too. So can working with a certified personal trainer.
Devise a backup plan
Time and access are the largest obstacles to fitness, and even
devoted exercisers experience lapses. Dont use these as excuses to avoid exercise. Having some portable home workout gear like a stability ball, resistance tubing, jump rope, and dumbbells, will allow you to work out while traveling, at home or even at work. With limited time, focus on compound
movements for the largest muscle groups and superset 2 for opposing muscle groups. A brief but intense workout can be accomplished in a few minutes.
Just do it
While pumping iron may not be right for everyone, the idea being active is. Find something you enjoy doing that elevates your heart rate and challenges you most days of the week. Also pay attention to how you feel. If you are like most people in as little as three weeks you will find yourself
sleeping better and feeling more rested.
The information contained in this article is strictly for informational purposes and is not intended to provide medical advice. If you are sedentary or over 40 please get clearance from a doctor before starting an exercise program.
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About The Author
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